Marcydel
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Post by Marcydel on Mar 15, 2020 2:42:51 GMT
Hello. I hope everyone is well, psychologically and physically.
So.... I’ve gone completely cold turkey from everything related to MD (that I can control) since Wednesday. I’m shooting for maybe two weeks, just to see what happens. I’ve been meaning to pull through with the old “cold turkey” method for about two years, but I guess I finally got the willpower. I’m not physically abstaining from MD for the sake of permanently stopping it by willpower for the rest of my life, I guess I believe that there’s a meaning to MD, like it’s there for a reason. And the first step is uncovering that reason, so I can finally deal with it and move on at last.
From sources that claimed to have overcome MD (that I personally believe), abstaining from MD may give me some insight into why I do it in the first place, for example: underlying depression, anxiety, loneliness, etc. The idea is that the “tension” builds up until I can’t ignore it anymore and my body (or brain, whatever) eventually stops being physically dependent on/expectant of the “MD high” for compensation purposes. Then, hopefully, if I resist from looking for another defense mechanism, I’ll finally get to face whatever caused me to start to MD in the first place. I don’t know if that’s the exact mechanics of it, but I’m still giving it a shot.
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Post by legendarydarkknight on Mar 15, 2020 9:23:03 GMT
Looks like an interesting technique. But it can work out IF you have the durability and willpower to stem the tide of daydreams and brace for the strike of the underlying conditions; which I believe you do as well, since it's not an easy task to decide to go down that route. Hope it goes well for you and you can find (and get rid of) the underlying conditions. Good luck!
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Post by Marcydel on Mar 15, 2020 9:28:05 GMT
Looks like an interesting technique. But it can work out IF you have the durability and willpower to stem the tide of daydreams and brace for the strike of the underlying conditions; which I believe you do as well, since it's not an easy task to decide to go down that route. Hope it goes well for you and you can find (and get rid of) the underlying conditions. Good luck! Thank you!
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Post by Sam on Mar 16, 2020 0:56:18 GMT
I've found that exercise can help quite a bit in relieving that tension. It's also a healthy coping mechanism, so it should help with your underlying issues as well.
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Post by Marcydel on Mar 16, 2020 2:32:48 GMT
Okay, now it's starting to get hard, just as I predicted. I'm very surprised I haven't given in today. A couple minutes earlier, I was near a huge trigger, I wanted to MD so badly and I was very close to, and I felt like I wanted to do something to relieve the tension (exercise is actually a trigger for me), but I couldn't. I'm tired, my resolve is very low, I'm anxious due to worrying about MD, I don't really have much faith in myself. Reality still doesn't mean much to me, still faking my way through it. I don't know what to think about, just sitting in silence.
Yet somehow I still didn't give in. Somehow. I don't know how much longer I'm going to last, but I guess I'm still dead set on doing this. Looks like its now or never.
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Post by legendarydarkknight on Mar 16, 2020 10:46:48 GMT
Don't give up, man. You've got this!
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Post by someone on Mar 16, 2020 20:41:11 GMT
We believe in you. You've got this far already.
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Post by Marcydel on Mar 17, 2020 2:30:20 GMT
Thanks. And don't forget to stay healthy and keep clean!
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