Post by katie on Apr 30, 2020 13:13:41 GMT
I said I was going to put up this thread to see if it is something that people can relate or even be more or less a cause to why we daydream the way we do.
I did put up a thread before I was a mode here asking people if they were comfortable in what they think cause this disorder. Mine was been so unwell for a long time and been bullied for so long. I do remember I didn't deal with emotion very well use to blank it out until something happened to me that I could not escape from like when I was bullied at the time it was happening to me I was so upset and would carry that around with me for the rest of the day no release from it until I could go home and daydream.
As years went by my daydreaming got worse use to store my negative emotions that I could not cope with to be way I wanted to daydream and then I learned what self regulation was for to stable emotions and urges that where not good for me and help calm down in a way. So if something goes wrong and it bugging me so much that I always just need someone to talk and reassure me I am ok and then I am fine again.
It was always clear for my psychiatrist that I had issues with emotions and she said I have really bad emotion unstable issues and extreme anxiety and depressive moods and when I saw a psychologist when talking to her about my daydreaming and all sorts of issues I have she could tell that my maladaptive habits are self regulation related maladptive daydreaming been one.
They added traits of borderline personality disorder to my file around my discharged day but I do remember my psychologist saying that I need to learn about self regulation by a therapist but they have scrapped that idea and are comfortable with my therapist I have now even doe I know getting self regulation therapy would help a great deal.
I have seen Somer research leaning towards our disorder been that we have issues with emotion but think that was seen within daydreams don't know if I am wrong in saying that any input to clarify this would be grateful.
I did put up a thread before I was a mode here asking people if they were comfortable in what they think cause this disorder. Mine was been so unwell for a long time and been bullied for so long. I do remember I didn't deal with emotion very well use to blank it out until something happened to me that I could not escape from like when I was bullied at the time it was happening to me I was so upset and would carry that around with me for the rest of the day no release from it until I could go home and daydream.
As years went by my daydreaming got worse use to store my negative emotions that I could not cope with to be way I wanted to daydream and then I learned what self regulation was for to stable emotions and urges that where not good for me and help calm down in a way. So if something goes wrong and it bugging me so much that I always just need someone to talk and reassure me I am ok and then I am fine again.
It was always clear for my psychiatrist that I had issues with emotions and she said I have really bad emotion unstable issues and extreme anxiety and depressive moods and when I saw a psychologist when talking to her about my daydreaming and all sorts of issues I have she could tell that my maladaptive habits are self regulation related maladptive daydreaming been one.
They added traits of borderline personality disorder to my file around my discharged day but I do remember my psychologist saying that I need to learn about self regulation by a therapist but they have scrapped that idea and are comfortable with my therapist I have now even doe I know getting self regulation therapy would help a great deal.
I have seen Somer research leaning towards our disorder been that we have issues with emotion but think that was seen within daydreams don't know if I am wrong in saying that any input to clarify this would be grateful.
