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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2018 9:19:39 GMT
Despite my DD theme are telling story of fictional characters while I become the narrator, sometimes I dd them to help consult with my problems. The example is like when I got anxiety to remember school life at past again. Usually I will had some pause brief until held my breath. But then I dd that some of my characters shook me and said "Wake up! you will forgot to take deep breath" and I jolted to take deep breath. My character with brotherly personality will hug me and say "There, there. those bullies already gone, remember? You've did great for not end your life back then!" Though actually I hug a pillow. The other character with brave or determined personality will gave the motivation like "They dislike you because you follow their trend. Then they dislike you because you didn't follow the trend. Then eff them and just go against flow to see who yourself are" I know those are just me try to calming myself. But I just found it weird if I dding myself calming me. So it shaped to my characters based on their personality inside the story that I made. As they are just my mind, I didn't consider them as other friend, too This thing getting greater after a bad thing occured me at august this year. I might made my characters (or my sanity ) had to shook me everyday to make sure I'm not forget to breathing and cherish the positive thing after the event. The massive dd reduced at december after I consult too with friends and family about the trauma. As the answer and the help was same like what my personality said, I can make sure my choice was right. Is it normal to dding like this? Somehow I ever found a forum and it said that it was kind of DID. But I kinda disagree because I always aware with the timelines, never had blackout, and aware that those characters are made by me which I won't deny like " it's not my fault but his".
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Post by Mordecai O'Shea on Dec 13, 2018 16:46:41 GMT
Sometimes I let one of my characters out of the daydream world to help me work through a problem I'm having in the real world - it really helps. My characters know me so well that I'm able to trust their advice, and because I know that my characters only exist in my head, it gives me a real confidence boost when one of them helps with one of my problems because I know that I've basically figured it out for myself, if that makes sense?
Like everything else in the daydream world, it's too good to be true - a best friend who is never too busy to talk to me, always puts my interests first and never needs me to help with their problems...
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Post by Deleted on Dec 16, 2018 7:44:41 GMT
Sometimes I let one of my characters out of the daydream world to help me work through a problem I'm having in the real world - it really helps. My characters know me so well that I'm able to trust their advice, and because I know that my characters only exist in my head, it gives me a real confidence boost when one of them helps with one of my problems because I know that I've basically figured it out for myself, if that makes sense? Like everything else in the daydream world, it's too good to be true - a best friend who is never too busy to talk to me, always puts my interests first and never needs me to help with their problems... Alas the last paragraph was true for me too. Plus that my characters mostly are male, which is really no way real life male friends will hangout with me, even for pizza night.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 16, 2018 10:11:04 GMT
Sometimes I let one of my characters out of the daydream world to help me work through a problem I'm having in the real world - it really helps. My characters know me so well that I'm able to trust their advice, and because I know that my characters only exist in my head, it gives me a real confidence boost when one of them helps with one of my problems because I know that I've basically figured it out for myself, if that makes sense? Like everything else in the daydream world, it's too good to be true - a best friend who is never too busy to talk to me, always puts my interests first and never needs me to help with their problems... Yes, that’s what I’ve been doing too. Great to see it’s not only me! I don’t do it very often but sometimes when I really feel the problem is huge, I put myself into the world of my dd-s (usually I’m not there , only characters) and try to speak to my characters asking what they think about it. Ofc, I know it’s all just my imagination, but I still do it once in awhile.
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