I fall in love with the ideas of people in my daydreams and then have an unhealthy attachment. For example I’ll start casually speaking to someone and it’s fine but I’ll daydream all these different things about them, I then fall in love when I’m reality I barely know them, I’m then stuck being in deep love with someone i barely know, so when it ends, I feel the same amount of heartbreak I would if I was leaving an actual relationship, when in reality we were only speaking briefly. HELP it’s causing deep deep depression
Hey try not to loss hope sometimes this happens but it maybe just because you admire them in some way. make sure you don't get yourself down too much and try and see if you friends or family can help you it difficult when you don't even know people that we might see them like that and end it as you don't even know who they are and then you might see them as you see sometimes we can run into issues with it. why don't you try new hobbies and things that you can look back on that showed you where you personalty didn't and is not interning with your daydreaming. It like we have to be in control of what issues we have along the way but that is just part of life that we have to get use to. As long as your trying to make yourself motivated each day and talking to someone if you ran into a little bump along the way that can get use down. You just probable need a helping hand to give you a nudge along the way it like we can't take a step forward at times without try to see if its the right thing for or well being or that you are going to belong somewhere within a life with some that is good for you. Try and do some mindfulness things and grounding yourself. You always have us here so you are not alone and if you need to talk anytime this web page has lovely people who understand where you maybe at.