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Post by acmo284 on Jan 22, 2021 20:49:02 GMT
Hello! I am 14 years old and I live in Ottawa. I read about maladaptive daydreaming a few weeks ago. I realized that I have several symptoms in common. I've payed attention for signs and read many articles and I now find that my daydreams have been getting gradually worse. It's a strange feeling, I hate that I feel like I'm stuck and can't get out of these daydreams, but I also feel like I don't what to let go of them. It's almost as if, from force of retreating into these fictious places, I have become attached to them. Is that unusual? It often distracts me from schoolwork.
I read about this forum on a Healthline article and figured I would give it a try. I'm pretty uncomfortable talking about all this and putting some personal info into a website but I figured that if it's mentionned on a webpage run by medical professionals it should be fine, I hope. I initially planned on just reading a few people's messages and maybe finding strategies to help. I thought I may be convicing myself that I have this and that I might actually not. If I am, its not the first time I've done this. (For example, I'm gitfted and for a short while I thought I might have austim. It turns out that autistic and gifted brains are very similar so I might have a few symptoms. I'm also very interested in neurobiology so I love reading about how all that works.)
Anyway, I'm really just looking to see if talking about it helps at all and if I can find strategies to use that might help me focus more on school than on fictional places and characters based on books and TV shows. I also have anxiety and occasional panic attacks which I've heard can be linked to maladaptive daydreaming.
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Post by Sam on Jan 27, 2021 17:15:32 GMT
Welcome to the forum!
MDers become extremely attached to their daydreams, so it's actually very common.
In general, I consider daydreaming to be maladaptive if it interferes with your ability to function in real life. This could mean you have trouble completing tasks in work/school or maintaining healthy interpersonal relationships. If it doesn't, your daydreaming could just be immersive, not maladaptive. You're the best person to make that distinction though.
Most mental illnesses have some link to MD because MD is so frequently used as a coping mechanism. If you think that's the case for you, getting professional help for your anxiety and panic attacks could reduce the amount you feel you need to rely on daydreaming. Even just cultivating healthier coping skills on your own would be beneficial--things like exercise, journaling, mindfulness, etc.
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