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Post by anna23 on Feb 25, 2021 19:06:48 GMT
Hi, I’m new here. I really want to stop daydreaming but it’s so hard. I noticed how often i do that and I can’t stop. I always do MD to music and walk in my room. And because of Covid i’m in my room (alone) all the time and have enough time to do it. I can’t remember a day without daydreaming and it makes me  . I’m addicted to daydreams... Has anyone tips how to stop or how to do it less? |
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Post by niarg on Mar 1, 2021 5:45:43 GMT
I think guided meditation helps. I'd like to start with someone because I can't motivate myself to do it (Yes it sounds pathetic, but it's true).
Edit: Guided meditation might help because it trains your mind to start being able to take back control, but without guidance or willpower, I just end up daydreaming when meditating.
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Post by elaaa on Mar 17, 2021 7:58:15 GMT
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Post by anna23 on Mar 18, 2021 18:28:15 GMT
thanks for the answers  I tried mediation but I haven’t got enough motivation for it. I don’t know I just can’t motivate me for doing it everyday. But I try. |
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Post by Sam on Mar 22, 2021 18:17:53 GMT
thanks for the answers :) I tried mediation but I haven’t got enough motivation for it. I don’t know I just can’t motivate me for doing it everyday. But I try. If you don't have the motivation to do formal practices, try doing informal ones: ground yourself in reality for a minute or two when you're outside in nature, when you're eating a meal, or when you're taking a shower. Basically, just really pay attention to the sensory input that you get during those experiences. If you drift into daydreams while you're doing it, gently bring yourself back to the sensory input of the present moment. Informal practices can often be easier to do regularly than formal ones because you can literally do them at any time, when you're doing anything. |
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Post by ruberbrassica on Mar 24, 2021 13:50:50 GMT
Great tips!! i'm having the same problems here...i'm happy to find this blog!
i dont like meditation, because its like im just getting mind focus which for me makes my daydream stronger, what helps me is body action. extremely external actions that need focus.
Specially things that you have to focus all the time, or you'll screw up things.
But for me i think i lost my mind control totally, so i need external help a lot!
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. I’m addicted to daydreams... 
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