fairytale
Active Daydreamer
you are not a mistake
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Post by fairytale on Dec 13, 2023 12:32:40 GMT
I celebrated too early. I thought my thought wouldn't try to kill me any time soon but I was wrong. I have exam tomorrow and my mind wont corporate and I m stuck feeling guilty and I've given up already. I know I will regret this but the more I try to study the more suicidal I become. I know exactly why its my trigger but there is nothing I can do about it. Now I just feel guilty and scared at the same time. I wish I just disappeared.
Someone told me that "people worry about the things that they can't control and let go what they can" but nothing is in my control. Nothing ever was everything that happened in my life good or bad was never my choice, it was a choice made for me by someone else and if I refute I was abused mentally and physically. Now I m scared to even voice out mu opinion and its slowly but surely killing me. I m scared that someday I might lose the fragile sting that's keeping be sane and end up some where I don't want myself in. Every little thing is starting to affect me and my will to is almost gone. I might survive just one more blow and after that I m . I was stronger than I thought but not strong enough and this is as far as I can go alone. I did find friend but it is already too late. I trust them but not enough. I've been hurt by every single person I've met in the past but yet I took a step towards my new friends. I want be close but I can't I know i m the one keeping the distance because I don't want to fail to protect them again. I was the cause of many problems, not all but surly many. I always thought many people wouldn't have suffered soo much if I was never born.
There are too many things I m guilty about and to be honest I don't even have anything to live on for. no one and nothing. I lost my dream, learnt that my family won't like me if I don't do what they say. One wrong move and everything will turn to hell. I was ready to move out as soon as I graduate but things didn't go well and I had to drop my degree and restart again. Now I m half way past my current degree and I m breaking down. My life is in a turmoil. My family is getting crazier and I m walking on eggshells. I wish I could just die in my sleep because I m not even capable of doing it myself.
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Post by kristen1 on Feb 8, 2024 0:09:34 GMT
Hi there! I just wanted to say that I can definitely relate to your struggle with school. For a while I was struggling with depression and the maladaptive daydreaming just kept me trapped in my mind for a long while. I actually failed a few classes during that period of my life and had a really hard time forgiving myself and moving forward. Every time I studied I would just feel sick and start back on all of the times I've messed up. One piece of advice that helped me was to try to keep a growth mindset rather than a fixed one. It helped me to remember that while I cannot go back and change anything, I was able to learn or adapt in some way through what I experienced. I started to focus more on the present while still acknowledging the past. As for what you said about choices, it sounds really hard having so much out of your control. I'm sure it must feel overwhelming and I'm sorry you've been going through that. I once heard that things will either change in time or by the choices we make. Despite the many things that are not in our control, we can still try to make little choices like planning out our day, doing a workout, meditating, staying well hydrated, getting good sleep... Even if it's small, I found some solace in have some positive decisions I can make in the present. Healthy coping mechanisms like journaling or reading can help to destress as well. I'm glad that you were able to take steps towards your friends and hope that you find healing from those that have hurt you in the past. I wish you the best with your situation, I'll pray for you. Please do not give up! I do not know all that you've been dealing with, but I'm rooting for you. There is always hope for things to get better.
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