mab
New Daydreamer
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Post by mab on Sept 13, 2019 11:06:01 GMT
Hi everyone, this morning I was daydreaming and suddenly it hit me, is it normal to daydream so much? I can even forget about what is going on in real life. I googled "daydreaming all day" and suddenly all these websites about maladaptive daydreaming appeared. I have never felt more identified. I have social anxiety and i've just moved to a new city by myself so my way of "coping" with it has been staying at home and daydream. I know it is bad for my mental health, and that I should go out and meet real people. But I just dont know how to find the strenght. And it's not only when I am alone. Sometimes I hang out with friends (in my previous city) and if they're saying something boring I just tune out and daydream with whatever I want to, my dream job, a great future, etc. When I'm alone, I dance and pace while daydreaming, I even make gestures like the person is there with me. I just feel like real life is too boring, but I am also not doing anything to change that. Is there anyone else that feels like they're not living life to its fullest because of daydreaming so much?
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Post by Dimmer on Sept 13, 2019 14:55:15 GMT
Welcome to the forum! Yeah, I feel like I 'slept' through most of my life.
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Post by bee on Sept 13, 2019 17:11:28 GMT
Hey mab, welcome to the forum! [..] Is there anyone else that feels like they're not living life to its fullest because of daydreaming so much? Sometimes I feel that way, too. And sometimes I think my dreams give me so much more emotions than I could ever hope to get in real life.
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biancaj
New Daydreamer
english is not my first language, please forgive my mistakes
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Post by biancaj on Sept 14, 2019 10:03:04 GMT
yes, I do feel that way too
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Post by alvi on Sept 14, 2019 18:35:06 GMT
Is there anyone else that feels like they're not living life to its fullest because of daydreaming so much? Welcome to the forum. I feel like this everyday. I'm literally daydreaming my life away. I have a few things I need to be doing at the moment and I'm just not bothering. Lately I'm neglecting pretty much all aspects of my life and daydreaming instead.
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