Do daydreams make you uninterested in a "real" relationship?

Hmm not really. The reason of me having commitment issues more to felt scared after seeing and hearing many relationship that went eff up. Even inside big family circle. And everyone seems shrugged and say "well clash in relationship especially marriage does normal". I might be coward to scared with conflicts, and ofc always not having stronger arguments.
My dd to having relationship does exist but always ended like "nevermind, I might easily filing divorce when an argument happens either in dd and real life"

It makes me want one more. Sometimes I get a little when I daydream about that stuff because I am afraid I will never have something like that in real life.

Real life dating has always been a big no-no for me regardless of my DD, so no difference.

I feel the same way, not just with relationships, but with friendships as well. I'm kind of a hopeless romantic and most of my daydreams are about friendship and romance, but when it comes to real relationships I'm too scared to really put myself out there. I used to think I wanted a boyfriend and a lot of friends in real life and I would always try to make it happen, but in the end I would always get hurt and so I usually ended up going back to my daydreams. At some point I realized I actually prefer daydreaming to having real relationships because that way I won't get hurt.

When I was 14 I really wanted a boyfriend but my mum forbid me from having one until I was 18. But by the time I was that age I had discovered I could have better relationships with the fictional characters in my dds. So when I was allowed a boyfriend I just didn't want one and it's been that way ever since.

I also try to avoid the pain of interpersonal relationships. The fear of getting hurt holds us back, makes us think that we're better off avoiding the thing we had wanted because we'll be safer if we didn't try. Now I know too many people who have told me that crazy is constantly doing the same thing and expecting there to be a different outcome than the one that occurs every time. The problem with that logic is that in most cases we might apply that it doesn't actually apply. We might say, "Based on all my unsuccessful attempts, I can never get a good relationship, so I'm better off in my daydreams." However, an attempt does not always have to be the same. It's easier to draw a large conclusion than a small one, one that recognizes a mistake we made, from something painful. We can learn from our mistakes only if we identify the real mistake. So, maybe the problem isn't that all potential friends can't be trusted not to hurt you irreparably, maybe the problem is just the friends you had chosen in the past were that way. Or maybe there is something you can identify that you did or didn't do in every one of your relationships or attempts at forming them that caused you, or would have avoided you, pain. It's not uncommon for people to feel that they had enough and just give up, but we have to recognize that we would feel unhappy looking back at our lives to see that we gave up on something that was important to us. When we are old and forgetting things, we could end up very lonely because we are expecting our "friends" to visit, not realizing that the people we are about were never real in the first place. I used to have imaginary boyfriend's or friends that had problems, and though it is hard I was able to get myself from time to time to give them the problems I never wanted to deal with in other people. I came up when version after version of how I'll get through that problem and take control of the situation. But I ended up enjoying the daydreams better when there was no problem I never wanted to deal with in them, so I stopped daydreaming about them with those problems. I really shouldn't have because in real life we are going to have to face these things. The good daydream relationships/friendships help us understand what we really want, we learn about ourselves that way. But the realistic/problematic ones help us understand how to manage, and we learn things about ourselves that way. We learn our ideas on what to do in that situation: when to try again, when to leave, when to come back, when to recognize a misunderstanding, when to identify someone (sometimes oneself) is in the wrong, and so much more. We become more prepared for trials, and have more fantasies to compare real life to than just the best ones. But it's not a good idea to daydream excessively, I know that, but at least if you can manage giving time to more realistic daydreams, the real world might feel more manageable.